Manager continuously assigns employee 'urgent' work at 4:55 PM, gets annoyed when they push back: 'It feels more like poor planning than an actual business need'

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  • A representation of an employee sitting at her desk in the evening, touching her hands to her face in frustration
  • My manager keeps assigning me urgent work at 4:55 PM. Am I being unreasonable for pushing back?

    I've been at my company for about a year. Overall I like the job, the pay is decent, and my manager has always been friendly. The problem is that almost every week, usually on Thursdays or Fridays, I'll get a Teams message around 4:55 PM asking me to finish something "before tomorrow morning."
  • These aren't five-minute tasks. They often take one to three hours and usually require checking data from several departments. My official work hours end at 5:00 PM, and I have about a 45-minute commute home. I also have evening responsibilities that make staying late difficult.
  • The first few times I stayed because I wanted to make a good impression. But now it has become an expectation. If I say I'll do it first thing the next morning, my manager responds with things like, "I was hoping to have this tonight," or, "It would really help if you could knock this out before you leave."
  • What's confusing is that these assignments don't seem to be true emergencies. Sometimes they're reports that won't even be reviewed until the following afternoon. It feels more like poor planning than an actual business need.
  • Last week I finally said that I couldn't stay and would complete it first thing in the morning. My manager wasn't ride, but they seemed disappointed and have been noticeably cooler toward me since then.
  • Am I being unreasonable for expecting work assigned five minutes before the end of the day to wait until the next morning, unless it's a genuine emergency? Or is this just something employees are expected to accept if they want to be seen as team players? I'd appreciate hearing from managers or people who've dealt with something similar.
  • A side view of a model representing an employee sitting at her desk in the evening, touching her hands to her face in frustration
  • Key_Turnover_4564 This is called testing boundaries. If you don't push back, this will become the new norm.
  • Snoo_33033 Nah. Eff that guy. I used to work for one of these. I worked for him. for a year and he ruined many great nights of personal time that often were for no reason at all except that he didn't plan ahead for his own meetings with our founder.
  • Then he sacked me eventually because he basically blamed anything he did wrong on the executives like myself who actually did the work. Get out now, protect your time.
  • EmotionalBand6880 "I understand that you were hoping to have it tonight, but that's not going to be possible when you bring it to me 5 min before EOD. I'll work on this first thing in the morning."
  • PsyPup If it doesn't need to be done within the next few hours, it's not really urgent. IF it can wait till tomorrow, it waits till tomorrow.
  • LawyerDad1981 ... they seemed disappointed..." They've been disappointed before. They will again. It's part of life.
  • Hot-Choice8862 I would start checking in with them at 4pm on any tasks that should come first in the morning. You might be able to knock it out before 5pm but start communicating premtivly
  • VorionLightbringer Not unreasonable to demand a minimum of planning from your manager. I don't expect anyone to stay beyond their 8 hours. The only time I ask for something at 4:55pm is when defecation hit the oscillation. Definetely not on normal stuff.
  • Any manager worth their job title should be able to plan a week+ in advance.
  • Bring_da_mf_ruckus Don't let his lack of planning become your emergency

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